Second or Third wife never in a million years- Read CONCERNED

Submitted by kexia (United States), Sep 15, 2006 at 11:41

I thank you concerned for your honesty. As for the father marrying the second wife. Just because something is the law doesnt mean it is totally accepted . I was blind to the fact in thinking that The family accepts this marriage to the second wife I was told by the family they hated it. And my fiance's sisters and brothers are against this marrying multiple partners thing.

I said if you grew up around this and it is acceptable by law why is it not the norm for you? I was told that their feelings are if you find a true love that is all you need. And i was told that many partners are a sign of selfishness on the man's part. they have witnessed the pain in their mother face when this second woman is around and they despise it.

So no I will not be a second or third wife to anyone I have too high self esteem for that and to add to that. And as far as the second wife trying to make problems my fiance told her to get a life and stay out of his business she was told that in front of her husband ( his dad) . He also made it clear to her and everyone like it or not we will be married because it is his life not theirs.

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