thank you sabrina

Submitted by lorraine (Ireland), Sep 24, 2006 at 08:29

hi sabrina,

thank you again for getting back to me. you say it is not allowed for him to live with me if we are not married. this makes me doubt him because when i was leaving to come home i was prepared to never hear from him again i thought of it as a holiday romance. but he told me then that he loved me and was going to come over in september to live with me. he told me this many times even after i came home.

so if its not allowed why lie to me. i really dont think i know him well enough to marry him.i cant seem to get to know him either because he very seldom contacts me now and when he does he acts like everything is ok. you say not to sleep with him. i already did when i was over there. is this a problem for me? he was very keen for me to sleep with him from the first day we got together.

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