MY GOODNESS WAKE UP

Submitted by Sabrina (Canada), Sep 25, 2006 at 12:35

Hey there,

I am going to be very blunt here...you seem like a nice person, and can do better, he he "loves" you then why doesnt he call you? email you? msg you watever it takes, why cant he do it? why is it so hard for him?

And if he was eager to sleep with you the first day you got together, it might have been b/c he was sexually frustrated. Dont put yourself out there like that, sex to him probably means nothing, just another girl. If i were you , I'd re think this whole thing. I wouldnt go forward with him if i were you. One thing women do lately is just have sex with a man just because, in my eyes thats wrong, a girl will get connected, a man never will. If he is connected to you, where is he?

a lot of men say things so they sound perfect in the womens ear. NOT JUST MUSLIM MEN, ALL MEN IN GENERAL! Reality is, they will never "love" a women, unless aproved my dear old mom. So if I were you, get out of this, find a guy who will love you, and where you dont have to ask yourself, should i be muslim, will i have to wear hijab etc etc...that all these women keep asking themselves. IF YOU CANT ACCEPT ISLAM THEN DONT MARRY A MUSLIM GUY. ITS SIMPLE. Why would u put urself into a position or life where you cant accept any of it? whats the point? you have one life, live it so that you are happy.

i know it may have sounded harsh, but please wake up. Stop making this excuse that you love him and u know him, if you did and do then you wouldnt be up here asking what to do. Why waste your time? and your life.

Sabrina

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