yes you are right about all you said, maryam.

Submitted by aysha (United States), Oct 20, 2006 at 20:34

yes you are right how you described all. no one should meet men off the internet.

it is much better going through someone you know is better then getting hitched with a complete stranger. any man love a woman would not ask a lady for money. he would do everything in his power to raise money and buy the love of his life the world. and any lady getting involved with a married man saying he does not love his wife and promising his lover he will divorce his wife and marry her. do not believe him! any man that cheats on his wife and lies , will always cheat and lie and do the same to hurt you too.

do not let love take over your heart. use your mind. i am american muslim married to a good muslim tunisian man, a rare kind of man. i know everything in islam marriage and laws. please use your best judgement and stay clear of con men types. it is shame for a muslim man to ask money from a woman. it is the responsibility of a man to support and provide his wife maintenance while the woman is reponsible managing inside the home.

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