To Tonya

Submitted by Michelle (United States), Oct 22, 2006 at 12:33

Hello there,

Kind of confusing when the mind and the heart are at war with one another. I don't know the right answers either, I'm still trying to figure it out. But I feel if you're the one doing the majority of work to become together as one in mind, body and spirit. YOU NEED TO TAKE A GOOD LOOK AT THIS. That is what I'm doing now. I've been reading all the information here and it has truly given me a good wake up call. But for me, I'm the older American Woman he is the Younger Moroccan that does not work, that seems pretty content with his way of life, doesn't seek employment, but is one rather charming man...he is very charismatic. But in real life in the face to face encounters with a man and a woman, so much more is on the table. Love is incredibly beautiful, but the reality is.....what happens when the two worlds meet, you are together as one...hopefully your Moroccan man is so different than the one I know, I hope if your choice is to go to him, to marry him, you make him pay for it or at least half. I have spents mega dollars just calling him in Morocco and like a fool I have wired money to him, please I'm begging you, love is blind, if you're doing any of this, think twice.

Whatever your decision is, I truly with you a life full of much love and happiness.............As for me, I'm letting go of my Moroccan Man. In every telephone conversation we have lately, it is, can you wire me money, I'm broke..................................Is that love..............in his mind yeah, he's found a sugar momma.....no good!!!

Wishing you the best,

Michelle

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