One bad apple don't spoil the whole bunch hehe

Submitted by Maryam (United States), Oct 24, 2006 at 02:37

Hello again Tonya,

I am sure nobody wants to discourage you in your quest for happiness and please believe me when I tell you I wish the best for you and I understand your frustration at the immigration policies of most countries these days. It is unfortunate that grown human beings are not allowed free movement and the ability to join in matrimony with whomever they may wish. I agree with you on that point, for sure.

On the other hand, it would behoove you to listen to others as they warn you against the wolf in sheeps clothing and there are many out there in the net cafe's overseas working together and sharing notes to snag the prize of an American, Canadian or European lady to get them a better life. Who can blame them when it is, indeed, so difficult to make the journey these days without a sponsor.

It is ironic, in a country of descendants of immigrants, it is so hard to immigrate. lol. Take care dear Tonya and may you bear the fruits of your labor in happiness and bliss if that be God's plan for you. I am sure that people are warning on this site not to rush in where fools dare not tread. If he is muslim, it might be wise to research his religion and culture a bit and see if it is somewhere you might like to live in the future because often as men age they wish to return to their roots but not all do.

My best friend is from Morrocco and she is a wonderful, charming, intelligent, kind, generous, and hospitible. Another of my friends is married to a Morroccan and he is a wonderful cook. God bless you, too, Tonya and I wish you the best.

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