reply to jewel

Submitted by aysha (United States), Oct 29, 2006 at 08:05

SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR EXPERIENCE WITH A MARRIED MAN. TO YOUR QUESTION WHY YOU STILL LOVE THIS MAN AFTER ALL HE HAS DONE TO YOU? I THINK YOU ARE STILL LIVING iN YOUR PAST, HOW NICE THIS MAN WAS, HOW CHARMING THIS MAN WAS. BUT IT WAS A SHORT TERM HAPPINESS.

THIS MAN HAS CHEATED ON HIS WIFE WITH ANOTHER WOMAN. ALWAYS HE WILL STAY MARRIED TO HIS WIFE (THE FIRST ONE) IF THIS MAN LOVE HIS WIFE TOO MUCH HE WOULD NOT MARRY ANOTHER. ALWAYS FOR A MUSLIM IF THEY MARRY MORE THEN ONE WIFE. THE FIRST WIFE IS THE QUEEN TO ALL THE OTHERS. BUT THOSE DAYS HAS GONE. NOT MANY WILL MARRY MORE THEN ONE WIFE. THE FIRST WIFE WILL MORE LIKELY NOT ACCEPT AND WILL DIVORCE HIM.

ALWAYS MEN THAT ARE FAR FROM HIS WIFE FROM HOME. HE WILL CHEAT. MEN CANNOT DO WITHOUT A WOMAN TO USE. THIS MAN OF YOURS HAS LIED TO YOU THAT HE NOT NEED PAPER, HE NEVER MENTION HE WAS MARRIED TILL AFTERWARDS WHEN HE KNEW WHEN YOU HAVE ALREADY FALLEN IN LOVE WITH HIM. AS LONG YOU REMAIN EASY TO THIS MAN AND GIVE HIM WHAT HE WANTS, HE WILL CONTINUE GOING AFTER IT FOR FREE. MY HEART GOES OUT TO HIS WIFE BACK HOME TOO. SHE IS SITTING HOME TAKING CARE OF HIS HOME AND CHILDREN AND WAITING ON HER HUSBAND TO RETURN TO HER AT HOME.

HER HUSBAND IS AWAY WORKING IN ANOTHER COUNTRY TO SEND MONEY HOME TO SUPPORT HIS FAMILY. THIS IS THE DUTY OF A MAN IN ISLAM. IT IS NOT EASY FOR A MUSLIM MAN TO DIVORCE HIS WIFE AS IT IS HERE IN THE WEST. A MUSLIM MAN PAYS A BIG BRIDE PRICE CALLED A DOWERY. TO DIVORCE HER WILL COST HIM LOTS. MARRIAGE IS MORE PROTECTED AND SECURE THEN THE WEST. FAMILIES ARE VERY CLOSE AND TOO MUCH LOVE IN FAMILIES. UNLIKE IN THE WEST.

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