reply to Morrocan women who uses North American and Europeans

Submitted by Ex girlfirend of a Morrocan guy (Canada), Nov 1, 2006 at 00:12

You know I have always had the feeling that Les Maghrebans (North Africans) have nothing better to do but Mooooch (use) the North Americans and Europeans for money or what they call a better life. Its a pity that you, the North Africans, don't pride in yourself of making financial independence on your own. Don't you people understand that money does not come easy? You guys don't realize this because you people live so simply in impoverished ways that its enough in your home country. But of course you people will have enough of impoverished living that you will decide to live off North Americans and Europeans.

I'm a Canadian 30 year old girl who just finished her relationship with a Morrocan 28 year old. He has been living in Canada for 10 years. Already has 2 kids from someone else. He was working , he did pay for our dates for the 1st week but then he claimed he lost his wallet in the 4th week of our relationship. Since then I have paid for dinners, clubbing , alcohol, some clothes for him and hotels. I have seen where he worked but he always quit the job once he got his first pay cheque. He now claims to have a great job in a French Call centre in Toronto. But I can tell he lies too much. Oh by the way I have paid rent for two months and cancelled the lease by the second month because he did not produce rent money on time. To date I have spent about probably $8000 on this individual and myself for things we do together. He proclaims his undying love for me and has already introduced me to his cousins and aunt and friends who live in Toronto.

I have had enough of bull. Enough is enough. He is very sweet and romantic but violent and verbally abusive at other times. He has too much baggage and problems and financial problems that I'm not aware of. And on top of that he claims to have lost his Canadian Citizenship Card, Health Card and etc. Don't get me wrong I question him alot and get angry at him alot and we broke up many times because of his crap. Other times he is so jealous when men look at me and he accuses me of looking at them, when I don't.

How can you North Africans (Morroccans and Algerians especially) do this to other people. One day Allah will judge you and give what you deserve...

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