junglekitte -- morocco

Submitted by Sabrina (Canada), Nov 6, 2006 at 15:00

Hey,

Its been a while since ive been on here lol. Well JungleKitte, it sounds like you have a good man. But one thing usually it is custom when "outsiders, foreingers" who go to places like Morocco are always welcome to homes with open arms, they are very nice people. They take pple off the streets to give them food or places to stay when they know they are from places like the US. When marrying a mideast man esepcially if he was brought up there, realize that if you guys moved anywhere like the US or Canada he may have an adjustment problem. Obviously Morocco is not like the US so he will probably have issues with that, so please dont rule that out. Advice with that, if you guys want a perm. relationship, see if he can get a visiting visa to the US for a few months so he knows what he's getting into.

One thing I can say is that make sure u know him inside and out. A lot of these guys since you are not there w/ him all the time play this game, being the perfect gentlemen etc etc,then when its marriage they change b/c they have somthing to prove.

See how religous his family is. how he is. Does he speak arabic all the time, or english and french? If he is close to his mom and sisters (if he has any) then maybe you'll be lucky b/c usually guys who are close to their moms are well mannered BUT they will listen to their mothers for marriage. Have you ever talked to his mom? if she shed tears perhaps she genuinely likes you. If you and this guy are serious, and u see him in Dec. talk about marriage but include his parents.that way they will feel more comfortable with the topic. but if it becomes a problem that his mom or dad say no, he cant. THEN PLEASE DONT HURT YOURSELF BY FORCING THIS, you will only hurt more at the end.

IF you want to talk more, reach.sabrina@hotmail.com is my email.

S

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