still not sure

Submitted by lolly (United States), Nov 18, 2006 at 01:33

hi bronze, i met a guy from morroco,we met online. he seems very sweet but as you know you can't trust that. i know this from previous relationships of course. again he is a sweet talker but seems very trust worthy. he wants to marry but i'm not sure about this,and i know you can't say for sure if he is sincere if i can't.

anyway he wants me to visit him in morocco. he is willing to pay for the trip. after talking for a while he now wants me to come there and get an engagement ring?? he did ask if i wanted to live there or in the states. i know that he has tried for a visa in the past and did not get because he wasn't picked. i think some kind of lottery they hold there. his sister got lucky and won and now she is living in the states. as you know that greencard is always in the back of your mind- is it me or the green card? i don't know but almost ready to take that chance.

i'm also african american and wondered if a marriage would work between the two. you really don't see that much or at least i haven't, not where i'm from anyway. i'm happy for you and your husband glad to know your'e making it work.

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