Reply to Deb

Submitted by Steph (United States), Dec 4, 2006 at 13:16

Deb, I was thinking if you want to get out you can, since you work and he lets you work and if he doesn't ask for your check money .You can start saving money to move If you drive get a uhaul to rent If you can save money for a while enough for moving and rent expenses.

There are cheap places if you look on the internet classified papers like citizens voice there are cheap places to live. Does he let you have a car? mine doesnt to keep me more trapped. The thing is, when you start packing and leaving he might have a fit you might need to get an order of protection against him if you think he might get abusive when you leave.I know its hard especially if you have no help.

I have no family to back me up so again im am still trapped. Since you have money that is freedom right there with your job but if you move you might have to look for new work near to where you live. If i was you if he lets you save money. You can also get a bank account. tell them you dont want statements to come to your address hide all bank records . Hide card If you have a car and have a job then he lets you have somewhat of freedom. You need to plan. mine found out i had bank account took all documents. he would go through all my belongings even when i tried to hide things put belongings in friends house or relative or just get safe deposit box.

I know they can enslave american women and theyre good at it. Deb, save money so you can get out. I'm trying to get out also right now it's to hard. There are days i wish he would be deported. He blackmails me if he leaves from here i will be homeless and the government will take my kid from me. i guess thats why he never wanted to buy me a house. Be careful if you have young a child.They do conspire with family members to kidanp your child back to their country.

Advise your child to call police if taken to airport and to not board the plane .Be careful if you have a passport for your child. make sure who has passport ,you or him. Mine has been scheming since i married him and i should have never let him move me to these woods here. he lied that he would buy me a car and i am trapped I cannot go anywhere here without a car.The nearest bus stop is 5 miles away.

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