THIS IS ARAB LIFE

Submitted by MISSY (United States), Dec 23, 2006 at 07:12

I AM A MARRIED WOMAN TO AN ARABIC MAN. THIS INFORMATION TO ALL WESTERN WOMEN OUT THERE THAT SEEK INTEREST IN ARABIC MEN. DON'T EVER EXPECT YOUR MARRIAGE TO BE ROSY, BECAUSE YOU ARE ALONG WAY FROM HOME FOR THAT TO HAPPEN!

I AM FLABBERGASTED READING SOME OF THESE COMMENTS ON THIS SITE. THERE IS NO WAY A MUSLIM MAN WILL CHANGE TO BECOME ANOTHER RELIGION. THIS IS WHY IT IS WRITTEN IN THE QURAN A MUSLIM LADY CANNOT MARRY ANOTHER, BUT FOR A MUSLIM MAN CAN MARRY A CHRISTIAN OR JEW. I SEEN A SITE REGARDING A HINDU IN LOVE WITH A MUSLIM. HE CAN NEVER MARRY HER!!!!!!!! THERE IS NO WAY!!!!! READ ON DOWN WHAT TO EXPECT BEING MARRIED TO A MUSLIM ARAB.

* YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO LEAVE THE HOUSE WITHOUT YOUR HUSBAND's PERMISSION.

* YOU CAN NO LONGER CELEBRATE CHRISTMAS WITH YOUR FAMILY OR EXPECT HE TO JOIN WITH YOU. MEANS ALSO NO CHRISTMAS TREE OR ANY WRAPPED GIFTS.

* HE WILL NEVER EAT PORK PRODUCTS THIS INCLUDES IN GREASE AS WELL. YOU CAN NOT ALLOW ANY PORK PRODUCTS OR MEAT IN YOUR HOUSE, NOR CAN YOU EAT PORK AGAIN.

*THIS ONE THE AGE DIFFERENCE. DON'T EVER GET INVOLVED WITH A MUSLIM ARAB MAN THAT INCLUDES YOU BEING SO MUCH OLDER THAN HE. FOR THE ARABS FROM THE GULF. INCLUDES ( YEMEN, IRAQ, IRAN, TURKEY, JORDAN, SAUDI, OMAN , QATAR, KUWAIT, UNITED ARAB EMIRATES, PALESTINE, BAHRAIN, LEBANON, EGYPT AND SYRIA.) THE MAN HAS TO BE OLDER THEN THE WOMAN HE MARRY. FOR THE NORTH AFRICAN MUSLIM ARAB MEN. SUCH AS ( LIBYA, TUNISIA, ALGERIA AND MOROCCO). A LITTLE BIT OF GAP IN AGE WHERE A WOMAN A LITTLE OLDER THEN A MAN IS OK. BUT NOT TOO MUCH!!!!!!!ONLY A SLIGHT DIFFERENCE. BUT FOR THE SAUDI MEN THEY LIKE TO MARRY ONLY CHILD BRIDES WHERE THE MAN 30 YEARS OLDER THEN SHE. IT SOUNDS SICKENING, BUT YES! FOR ASIAN MUSLIMS SUCH AS PAKISTAN, AGHANISTAN, INDONESIA, MALAYSIA, BANGLADESH AND INDIA A MAN MUST BE OLDER THAN THE WOMAN ALSO TO MARRY.

* MOST ARAB MUSLIM ONLY MARRY ONE WIFE. THEY WILL MARRY MORE THEN ONE WIFE IF THE FIRST WIFE FAIL TO PRODUCE CHILD FOR HIM, THEN HE WILL MARRY ANOTHER. DONLT EXPECT HE TO ADOPT A CHILD. CAUSE THE ADOPTED CHILD COULD NEVER CARRY HIS NAME. IF YOU FAIL TO GIVE YOUR HUSBAND A SON. THIS IS FROWNED UPON YOU. YOU FAILED TO BE THE PERFECT WIFE TO HE.

* IF YOU DO NOT HAVE ANY INTENTION TO CONVERT TO ISLAM, YOUR MARRIAGE WILL NEVER LAST! IT IS VERY HARD TO HAVE HARMONY IN YOUR FAMILY HOME THAT ARE INTERFAITH BELIEFS.

* IF YOUR ARAB MAN HAPPENS TO BE MARRIED. WHAT EVER HIS EXCUSES ARE THAT HE SPEAK AS SUCH AS: HE DOES NOT LOVE HIS WIFE, HE WILL DIVORCE HER, HE IS NOT MARRIED, HIS WIFE IS NO GOOD. STAY AWAY........ HE WILL NEVER MARRY YOU. HE WILL NEVER DIVORCE HIS WIFE TO BE WITH YOU. MY ADVICE DO NOT GET INVOLVED. YOU JUST END UP BEING USED AND GETTING HURT! THERE ARE ALOT OF CON MEN AS THIS TYPE OUT THERE. THEY HAVE A WIFE BACK HOME AND YET COME TO THE WESTERN COUNTRIES AND CHEAT ON THERE WIFE. LIKE OLD SAYING GOES, ONCE A MAN IS A CHEATER HE ALWAYS WILL BE A CHEATER. IT IS BAD FOR MUSLIM MAN OR WOMEN TO HAVE ANY CONTACTS SUCH BY EXCHANGING TELEPHONE NUMBERS, INTERNET USAGE BETWEEN THE OPPOSITE SEX AND BY MEETING IN PERSON. THIS IS VERY BAD FOR MUSLIMS!!!!! MOST MEN ARE USERS AND LIARS!!!!!!

* DON'T EXPECT TO GO OUT AND HAVE ENJOYMENTS AND FUN. YOU WILL BE TIED INSIDE THE HOUSE. THE MAN COMES HOME AND WANTS TO STAY HOME. NO MORE DANCES, MUSIC CONCERT, BEING OUT WITH YOUR FRIENDS, PLAYING POOL, MOVIES, LAKE, CAMPING ETC... YOUR ENJOYMENTS WILL BE INSIDE THE HOME. SOME MEN WILL EXPECT THE WIFE TO WORK THIS IS ONLY IF HE CANNOT AFFORD TO DO BY HIMSELF. IF HE CAN THEN THE WIFE STAY INSIDE THE HOME WHILE HE IS OUT WORKING. THE WOMAN RESPONSIBLITES ARE MAINTAINING INSIDE THE HOME AND KEEPING IT CLEAN AND LIVE IN THE KITCHEN PREPARING THE MEALS. NO DUST ON ANY TABLES OR ENTERTAINMENT CENTERS ETC...

* YOU MUST COVER AND WEAR A HIJAB WHEN YOU GO OUT. NO MORE SHORTS, NO MORE MINI SKIRTS AND NO MORE TIGHT JEANS OR SHIRTS! YOU MUST CHANGE YOUR ENTIRE DRESS CODE TO LOOSE FIT CLOTHING, LONG DRESSES, LONG SLEEVED SHIRTS, SCARF. HE NOT ALLOW YOU TO WEAR MAKE UP OUT IN PUBLIC PLACES, ALWAYS INSIDE THE HOME IS IMPORTANT YOU LOOK YOUR BEST FOR YOUR HUSBAND , WHERE WEARING MAKE UP IS PERMITTED.

* YOU MUST GIVE UP ALL YOUR FRIENDS OF THE OPPOSITE SEX. MEANS NO MORE CHATTING, CALLING OR TALKING TO THEM IN PERSON. YOU MUST HAVE PERMISSION FROM YOUR HUSBAND BEFORE HE OR YOU CAN SPEAK.

* REMEMBER, YOURE MARRIED. WHICH MEANS YOUR HUSBAND HAS ALL CONTROL OVER YOU. EVERY LITTLE MOVEMENT YOU MAKE. IT DOES NOT MATTER WHERE YOU LIVE,. IF IT IS IN HIS COUNTRY OR IN WESTERN FREEDOM COUNTRIES. YOU STILL DO NOT HAVE ANY FREEDOM. YOU ARE UNDER THE AUTHORITY OF YOUR HUSBAND. WOMEN ARE UNDERNEATH THE MEN. MEN ARE SUPERIOR!

* YOU MUST LEARN AND KNOW HOW TO COOK HIS CULTURE COUNTRY FOOD JUST LIKE HIS MOTHER. AND YOU MUST LEARN FAST!!! DON'T EXPECT HIM TO EAT YOUR COUNTRY FOOD. HE WILL NEVER CHANGE FROM LIVING HIS CULTURE AND STYLE. REMEMBER THIS!

* DON'T GET THAT FUNNY LITTLE BUGGER IN YOUR HEAD IF I MARRY HIM , I WILL MAKE HIM TO A CHRISTIAN OR JEW. HE WILL NEVER !!!!!!!!!!!

* FORGET THE HOME ENTERTIANMENT SUCH AS MOVIES AND MUSIC. MOST MUSLIMS FORBID THIS FROM HOME! YOU HAVE BOOKS TO ENJOY , SO USE THEM!

* IF YOU ARE IN COLLEGE OR IN A CAREER JOB. DON'T BELIEVE HIM IF HE SAY BEFORE MARRIAGE YOU CAN KEEP . HE WILL MAKE YOU END YOUR SCHOOLING AND QUIT YOUR JOB. THE MAN HAS TO BE THE BREADWINNER! MAYBE HE WILL LET YOU WORK FOR A SHORT TIME TILL HE NO LONGER NEED YOUR HELP IN INCOME, BUT THEN YOU WILL HAVE TO END YOU CAREER WHEN THE TIME COMES!

* IF YOU HAD A CHILD , LOOK AT YOURSELF IN THE MIRROR. YOU KNOW YOUR HUBBY NOT LIKE IF YOU BECOME FAT. SO HURRY ON YOUR DIET TO LOSE ALL TO WHERE YOU WERE WHEN HE MARRIED YOU.

* OH , OF COURSE THE MAN IS GOING TO BE SUPER NICE AND SWEET OF TRAPPING YOU INTO ACCEPTING HIS MARRIAGE PROPOSAL. IT IS SO PERFECT, SO MUCH IN LOVE AFTER YOU MARRY. BUT IS ONLY FOR A SHORT PERIOD OF TIME. 2 MONTHS! THEN YOU ARE TREATED AS THE REST OF THEM. HE BECOMES BULLY HEADED, MEAN, YELLS, IN SOME CASES HITS. IT IS PERMISSIBLE FOR A MAN TO HIT HIS WIFE BUT NOT SEVERELY IF SHE DO NOT OBEY HUSBAND. ALL MEN ARE SUCH AS THIS ( ARABS OR MUSLIMS).

* A WOMAN CANNOT SMOKE CIGARETTES OR DRINK ALCHOHOLIC BEVERAGES.

* IN SOME CASES A WOMAN CANNOT DRIVE. OR LEAVE OUTSIDE THE HOME TO VISIT HER PARENTS OR FAMILY WITHOUT HER HUSBAND PERMISSION.

* IF THE WIFE CHEATS, IN SOME CASES THE HUSBAND MAY KILL YOU AND YOUR LOVER.

* NOW TO THE LAST, BEWARE WHEN TRAVELING TO HIS COUNTRY. USA LAWS DO NOT INTERFERE OUTSIDE THE USA. YOU ARE IN ANOTHER COUNTRY NOW AND YOU MUST ABIDE WITH THERE LAWS. IF YOU HAVE ANY CHILDREN, YOU CANNOT TRAVEL TO TAKE YOUR CHILDREN OUT THE COUNTRY WITHOUT HIS PERMISSION. AND IN SOME CASES THE WIFE MUST HAVE DEPARTURE PERSMISSION FROM HER HUSBAND TO TRAVEL OUTSIDE THE COUNTRY. NOW IS THE TIME TO THINK WHAT ALL I SAID. CAN YOU LIVE THIS KIND OF LIFE? THIS IS WHAT YOU TO EXPECT TO LOOK FORWARD TO. THIS IS THE LIFE OF ARAB STYLE. AND YOU MUST COMPARE YOURSELF AS AN ARAB.

THINK BEFORE YOU DO!!!!!!! MY LIFE IS MISERABLE!!!!!!!!

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