Thank you Bella Vida

Submitted by Khadija (Trinidad And Tobago), Dec 26, 2006 at 22:56

Thank you Bella Vida for taking the time out to respond. I guess I'm just plodding around hoping to find the answer which is probably right within me anyway. but an objective view from others removed from the actual situation is so helpful. Trust me....... at age 34 or even 43, or 64 for that matter, when the heart is involved one's clear perception of a lot of things can suddenly get distorted, and I am trying not to be a victim of that.

By the way..........attractive is a relative word................and differs according to geographical location........ again, I'm just trying to figure out in my head if the age difference or even the fact that I already have kids are such big factors as it seems to be in his culture. I realise that no one can give me any guarantees but I will never discount the importance of the experiences of forerunners. So yes, I will keep reading in between my moments of babbling :) to see what insight I can glean..... and I will take time out to appreciate the other well written and informative articles herein.

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