Need advice, I am a mexican, he is a Tunisian

Submitted by Ytria (United States), Jan 22, 2007 at 10:01

Hi all,

I want to share my current experience with all of you. I am a mexican girl, who met a Tunisian guy about 6 years ago by the net. He proposed me after like 5 months of net connection, but after finding out he was also fooling around with many girls also on the net, and because I was very young I say no. Nevertheless, I kept the contact with him, so I was relatively updated about his relationships. He says he never had a relationship with tunisian women, but all the girls he met was upon internet relationships, he was about to marry a separate French older woman, but by some reason, that didn´t work out.

So immediately after, he fell in love with a Estonian girl, as they are also very keen on European physics, like blond hair, clear yers.. but also the girl refused him, and after some few mothns, I had the opportunity to travel to Tunisia, so I met him and it was the most romantic thing I ever done in my entire life, I met his family, everybody was very nice with me, however , I still have my head on my shoulders, as during the trip, we met a Canadian woman ( older, nice but not a beauty) for he started to fool around with her holding her hand and talking in french with certain complicity). Suddenly the attention that was full to me divided in two. I was like a bit jealous, but as he was nothing serious at that time, I didn´t want to pay attention to it.

Now he says he is very serious about comming to Mexico,marry me and have a family. I really do not understand why he wants to leave his country for another like mine, is not about the green card, for sure, but I still wonder about it.

I read the comment of Karissa and it is quite similar. We could spend a lot of time talking, but he has some strange habits, as staying awake almost all night because of the net, not because he is chatting with me. He says he is at work, but I wonder who could ever stay at work at 4 am almost all days! And also I am in doubt as I am sure he keeps looking for girls on the net, and like when we were friends, he still fooled around with me ( a little bit) while having his other "relationships"

Well, looking for Carmen, who is also mexican, to tell me about her experience, any advice or comment on this is very very wellcome!

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