to steph

Submitted by naz (Canada), Jan 22, 2007 at 17:08

i am wondering if mine will get abusive. he said he would never hurt me, but emotionally he has. he also has a very very very bad temper.

do you think if i married him he would beat me? (i don't think i am going to marry him actually, i just want to make my decision). He also swears on his mother with things, and then his mother ended up in the hospital. he swore on her about something which ended up being a lie. i told him the reason she ended up in the hospital was because he swore on her and it was a lie (haha). i don't think he will swear on her again.

he is so sweet and so romantic, but he also tells me that no one will ever love me the way he does (bs). and he says that no one will marry me because i am so much in debt (i am just finsihing my degree). that is bs too. plus he always tells me that all these girls like him (bs) he is trying to manipulate me.

what do you think steph? did yours have a very bad temper and then it turned even uglier? does some of this stuff sound familiar?

i am canadian, he is turish and american citizen. is there a reason he would want to marry a canadian. i thought they would be happy with just american citizenship? or is canadian better?

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