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Submitted by Karissa (United States), Jan 24, 2007 at 18:48

how long have you been talking to him? What country are you from? Has he asked you to come there and he is paying the way or does he expect you to pay it? Is he going to allow you to meet his family, his friends, all of his kin when you go there, or does he want just a private time with you? Just watch your back..

I am going thru what I am not sure is a mistake or not.. I am married to a Turkish man , and yes he is sweet, but he can have a bad temper at times and he is not innocent...I caught my man chatting it up with other women from here, so I am not sure what to beleive at this point. I want to beleive in him, but in the back of my head, I am not sure whether to believe in him or not.

I would take it slow, and if I were you, I would wait a while, see what he offers to you. See if he really has anything to offer to you, or if he wants you to do everything while he sits back and reaps all the benefits. I am thinking seriously about getting a friend of mine to chat with my husband , just to see what he ends up telling her...maybe you might want to do the same. At least then you will know if you are just another in a long list of women that he is talking to.

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