Be true to yourself

Submitted by Grace (United States), Jan 28, 2007 at 18:28

Carmen. I agree with Alper in many of the comments mentioned but I strongly suggest that you remain true to your religious beliefs. I am a catholic woman married for 17 years to a Turkish man and he has never asked me to change my religion. If your fiance felt strongly about marrying a muslim woman he would be courting one. Alper, is certainly correct in his statement about the possessiveness that most Turkish men feel they have over their wives. This can be a problem so be prepared to know how to handle this intelligently.

Carmen, do not do anything that makes you uncomfortable and discuss important issues such as religion and children prior to marrying this man. I wish you much happiness and know as a young person that you will think things through and make the right decsions. Grace.

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