Being Bitter

Submitted by Donna (United States), Jan 30, 2007 at 13:29

I agree with you Carmen. If you read back to my post, you will see its impossible for her to believe anyone can be happily married to a turkish man. I finally quit posting my opinion, because it seemed the more I did, the more angry or intent to make me look like a liar she became.

I decided posting anything other than pure muslim bashing made her even more bitter, and was probably more upsetting while dealing with her own life. I feel bad for her, but as I stated in my post, we cant judge all people by the doings of one. Yes, there are many bad stories here, but if we set up a christian men bashing site, I cant imagine what that would be like. I have had 2 bad ones myself.

I think also, these women here need to figure out why they seek the love of someone that they dont trust. They wouldnt be writing here asking for advice if they really trusted the man. I have actually seen people ask for people's opinions about whether the man loves them or not. Outrageous! If you have to ask, you know they dont!

True, the women here for the most part are bashing muslim men, but why are you seeking love from them instead of the "good ole american boy"? Is it because you have been burned by them also? Can it be, you have low self esteem? Or maybe you are in love with the idea of being in love and are not patient enough to wait for someone that really loves you.

These women need to stop, take a deep breath, and correct the problems they have in their lives. Being bitter, and bashing others is not the way to do it. It is only destructive to themselves.

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