Thank you Alper !

Submitted by Julie (European Union), Jan 30, 2007 at 16:14

Your comments have opened my eyes to exactly what has been going on with my Turkish boyfriend. I realise now that I am the fun woman and not marriage material. I have seen such lovely strengths and kindness from this man over the past two years. I have helped him to gain a qualification and given up a lot of my very little spare time to help him.

I have waited on three occasions for him to return from Turkey where he lives and am waiting now. I have also seen mean ruthlessness, extreme selfishness and double standards. He will not 'open up' to me and I know he blatantly lies. I have examined my feelings and now know that I cannot wait any longer for a man who I can never trust & will never want me. Well, you live and learn !

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