Honest!

Submitted by Donna (United States), Jan 30, 2007 at 18:33

He sounds much like my turkish husband when I first met him. I offered to marry him to make sure he got the greencard, but he told me even though he loved me, he never wanted there to be a doubt in my mind that he married me for anything except love. He didnt marry me until after he had recieved his greencard, and we have been very happy since. He is the most loving, kind, and self sacrificing person I have ever met. His family accepts me, and my children (from a previous marriage) that he has adopted and loves as his own.

Please dont judge him by what you read here. I realize there are bad men all over the world, but there are also good men.

My advice to you is to give him a chance. Watch what he says and what he does, and dont be so inlove with him that you cant think straight. I think that has happened with many women on this site. Always remember, if someone loves you, you will know without hearing the words. If you question their love, the fact is they dont.

Good Luck!

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