To AS

Submitted by Grace (United States), Jan 31, 2007 at 17:37

The world is complicated enough without having to add more anger and hatred toward a certain group of people. There is no doubt that danger exists for the American woman considering a relationship with ANY culture outside of her own .

I am catholic and I have also been asked how can I particpate in a religion where so much scandal surrounds our priests and church. Well, I am there to worship and I am not responsible for what ANOTHER catholic may do. I am a good human being and I simply cannot punish all catholics or my local parish for unacceptable behavior of another. This is why we have a legal system. Beleive me, I do understand how you feel. I am an American woman who loves her country with all of her heart but I refuse to live in hatred and fear of others. I just cannot do it. I pray for our men and women who fight for our freedom everyday but understand there dedication and fight is for nothing if I become another heart filled with hate. I rather use my intellect and hope that other women will do the same .

My husband is Muslim and he loves this country and has made it his home. He appreciates the American way of life. So how can I possibly think that ALL muslims are "up to no-good". We already know that we have irrational human beings that do horrendous things in the name of their religion but there are so much MORE who do good in the name of the SAME religion.

It is not my intent to change your mind but I thank you for sharing your views, and yes, you are right that women have a responsiblity to know who they are becoming involved with not only for their own sake but for our society.Thank you again for sharing your views with me. Be well and happy. Grace

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