To Steph

Submitted by Donna (United States), Jan 31, 2007 at 17:54

Yes I am married to a muslim man. I think you should remember, since you were reading my post and just couldnt make yourself believe I was happy being married to a muslim man. By the way, how many unhappy christian marriages do you know of? Its about the choices we make, not the religion. I was married to two Christains previously, as I have stated in my post. It was horrible. So dont tell me its about religion, or about someones culture. Its about the character of a person. There are people with bad characters in every religion, in every culture, and every race.

As I see it, because of your reply, nothing makes you see the bitterness you have inside you. I am not the only one on this blog that has commented about it. You may not see, or want to see it, but you can bet it is affecting your life in ways you dont want to see either. If your marriage is that bad, take your kids and leave. There are many places you can go. Do you think it doesnt affect your children? If not for yourself, do it for them.

Take some of the spunk you have in your postings on this site, or your anger, and make your life and your children's lives better. Allowing your soul to be eaten away by a bad man is no show of strength. It takes a weak woman to stay, and a strong one to leave. I am sure you can find it in yourself.

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