hi Im new...."turks suck, or at least the one I met did lol

Submitted by american girl (United States), Feb 3, 2007 at 01:53

Hi, I am new to this message board (haven't written anything but have been reading the comments!). I am a young stay at mom American born and raised lol. I can't speak for all turk men because ( I have not known many ) but my experience with one was not a good one which makes me classify them all as arrogant heartless bastards! :)~ He was a charming VERY attractive man....A lot older than me.

anyways after becoming good friends with him He moved back home to Istanbul Turkey.. He said he had to go because his mom got sick...so I told him he was full of bs and didn't believe it ! I don't trust any man whatever religion they are most men are dogs! lol but after telling him I didn't believe that was the real reason and giving him a hard time, he finally cracked and told me it wasn't the real reason!! sooo i found out his mom was supposedly sick but the real reason" was because he was having problems with greencard. he says it doesnt expire until 2010 but he had to go to Turkey for 3 months and then he is coming back to America and is going to apply for a permanent greencard.

I think he just went the for the hell of it cause he missed it and want to go back blah blah whatever lol . but I have known this man for like 8months now and after only 4 mnths of knowing him he asked if I would marry him and told me he wanted me to have a baby with hiM! I thought that was weird, especially since he is so old and has never been married or had kids!

He says when he comes back he wants to live with me and get married ! I think he's in a big rush to marry me because it would make it easier for him to become a real citizen...not to sound stuck up or anything but I am young and pretty. so I guess that doesnt hurt either LoL but this man seems very sketchy to me. he says ALOT of american men are dogs and they are not like that in his country! some of the things he says and does just seems like blatant lies to me lol. definitely don't trust this man.

I notice a lot of you say that they are jealous people. also, which I have noticed we used to talk on phone a lot for the first couple weeks he left america and was in turkey now I haven't talked to him in like 2 weeks. I tried calling him but he blew me off I think he has a girlfriend over there in turkey. he actually told me he did but then said he wasnt with her because she's with some other guy ,but he's reallly good looking so Im sure its not hard for him to find other women. okay someone write back ,give me your thoughts on this...wow i wrote a lot !

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