Moroccan Men-Confused no more - for Kathy

Submitted by Jill (United States), Feb 4, 2007 at 15:24

Well Kathy,

I really enjoy reading what you have to say. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders.

Last night while talking to my Moroccan man on the telephone, which of course I phoned him. I started asking more and more questions, which undoubtedly made him very uncomfortable. I kept asking questions, he would not answer the question directly, then I said answer my question, it is not that difficult.

He has been going to the cybernet to use the internet, says he's broke, doesn't work, he is a musician, you know how it goes. Says he has no money to call me. Last night I asked him how he would feel if I told him I was broke all the time, but I had enough money to go play on the internet (or pursue looking for other women) and made the choice not to call him. I put the internet above our love. Well well, mercy me, this man did not like me cornering him, but I'm a very straight forward lady and call it what I see it.

He said that would hurt me....and undoubtedly he see's how he has hurt me. But he said he'd call me this morning...he has not....that is ok...cause it would be "too little to late" any way...you know.

I like how you've given us a reality check and put everything in clear vision. I know we should not BE IDIOTS and send these men vowing love money, but sometimes love is blind and stupid.....I will have no regrets cause I learned a lot along this journey with this moroccan man.

Again, Kathy, thank you for opening my eyes and heart much more. I wish you and your husband so much happiness and love, and for some reason I think you met the right Moroccan man as your love.

Sincerely,

Jill

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