Reply to Steph

Submitted by American Girl (United States), Feb 8, 2007 at 00:51

I am 20. Yes I live with her dad even though we both don't really like each other.. Yea he says he loves me, wants me to have his baby and be his wife. Yea if he comes back to USA lol he loves it in Turkey of course he is going to love it it's his country I understand that and just want him to be happy cause I care about him a lot not just in a romantic way but as a friend cause he was a good friend just miss him a lot used to seeing him around everyday :( I'm not sure where he grew up in Turkey but I know that right now he is in Istanbul living with his mom or maybe his girlfriend who knows lol he says mom lol yea he seems to like to be like manly and in control not treating woman in a bad way but in a good way. No I don't mind :) Yes he has told me that he likes his woman to be younger but he has never been with someone as young as me. I think a lot of men like their women to be younger and women usually go for older men but our age gap is kind of bad lol !

have not talked to him in uhhh like almost 3 weeks lol ! last time i talked to him he was acting weird so I have not called him since Im giving him his space ..and he has not called me, but I am sure eventually he will call me because he's not going to let me slip out of his life that easily lol !

First of all how old are you? Do you still live with the babies father? It sounds like this man has feelings for you but you need to decide if and when he comes back from Turkey. Where is he from in Turkey? I hope you don't mind the questions, i just need to get a better perspective of this.

I married a Turk from the south of Turkey and the men there seem more dominant. I am not happy in my relationship, but then again i am older then he. Most Turkish men like to have their women younger than them.

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