To steph

Submitted by Kathy (United States), Feb 8, 2007 at 07:05

Steph, I was reading your comments here on this message and was wondering, couldnt you contact immigration and tell them what is going on how he is treating you? You said he had broken some laws and that is why he is having problems now with his green card. Well I dont know, but the next time you go for an interview ,if you do that is dont smile and act nicey nicey with this man just for him let it be known how it is with you and him. tell them what has been going on. let the truth be known. the united states doesnt want men here that behave like this but it is up to us to let someone know.

You have use of the internet at times so put it to good use for you and your daughter. Also try not to put him down in front of your daughter. that will only make things worse for you and how she will see you. For the sake of the relationship between you and her you must treat him good. i know it will be hard but for her, you must let her see in her own eyes that mommy is loving but daddy is not. she is getting older and she will turn from what he has control over her now and will again be with you. She may only be 8, but believe me kids are a lot smarter then we think. In other words, kill him with kindness and your daughter will see the light...... Kathy

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