to confused i am not a horse to be tamed

Submitted by aysha (United States), Feb 11, 2007 at 08:48

from reading your letter, your husband's behavior is not normal for a married man. he is only 25 years old. he is not grown up yet. he wants to hang out at all hours of the night. why? from his country it is normal for a man to hang out with his friends but not no 3 and 4 in the morning! as what i understood your hubsand is from morocco. where and how you met your husband? did you meet him over the internet and you went to morocco to marry him? if this is the case. as what i have understood in your letter how he treats you and said he can't live with you all his life. this describes him using you for his green card and american citizenship card.

if i was you i would divorce this man and report him to the ins with all the evidence you have to strip him of his greed and deport him back to where he belongs. if it was not for your generous and support he would not have been lucky to be here in usa in the begin with. and it can be done all you have to do is show some kind of evidence .

as you have stated also in your letter he does not want children. this is not normal at all! all men want to have a child if it happens. it is all in allah hands. we can't always get what we want. as for being a husband , the normal and right way he would always stick up for his wife and treat her well with love and support. your husband sound the opposite. you should report him and divorce him. you deserve better than this!

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