Ok Steph

Submitted by K (Ireland), Feb 12, 2007 at 11:50

Hiya Steph

kinda get what you mean too. some people will show you from their cover more hidden aspects of their life. what i was getting at is i hate when people catagorize people into different sections, cultures, colours etc.

Like a Muslim person - oh they are all crazy, Like western woman - oh there all easy and so on.

It's like people saying all irish girls are the same!! so nearly 1.5 or more irish girls are exactly the same, these kind of Judgements tic me off.

My boyfriend is a lovely Turkish man, whose knows that i have my own mind, and will always do exactly what i want within reason, but knows i would never let anyone undermine or patronise me or my family. The same way i would not do that to his family and culture. I respect all different ways and varieties in life. the world would be a very boring place if we were all the same.

I think if 2 people, no mather what they practice, have an understanding of the other's ways, maybe like all realtionships they will work out.

But no one can offer this guarantee in life.

sometimes we just have to go for it, but only if we have gone in with eyes wide open.

K

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