tips before marriage with muslim guy

Submitted by tolga (United States), Feb 14, 2007 at 23:33

As you stated in your comments , you all-american girls really concerned about dating and having a long term relation with muslim guys. All you need before getting into serious relation with muslim man is to ask the questions such as how long he has been here and what is his main purpose of being in US ? If the answer is only education ,you would trust all students especially graduate or post graduate students. because it is really hard to get in US univercities if you are coming from abroad.

Just think that way, If your muslim candidate is able to get acceptance even from ordinary US college ,that means his backround is okay and also he must have enough money to pay school tuition and survive during his education( Especially after September 11 ,muslim students are double screening and questioning by US embassies). In order to get US visa ,you must submit solid proof such as diplomas and bank statements .For example you must have graduated from accredited colleges in your country and also for 2 years education at least 50-60k must be deposited in your saving acount.).

Second question you can ask is how often he is practising his religion. If the answer is never or rarely ,he would be okay as christian guys are okay for you ( in some secular countries such as turkey and tunusia ,young men are not practicing muslims ,mostly they are calling themselves as a muslim but mostly they dont know even basic things about islam. )

And the most important question is what he can do for future ,if the question is better life and kids , you really can trust him ,because if muslim man thinks about marriage they would not think to leave his kids or wife even tough he betrays his beloved christian wife.Briefly :

1) if your muslim man is graduate or PHD student ,he would be wealthy, intelligent and have good family. if he has lower education he still would be okay but mostly uneducated men's families are more conservative muslims

2) If your muslim man is non-praticing muslim, He would be as bustard as your ex christian boyfriend.But mostly they are more protective and treat you better than your ex christian bf does.That means more free diners and flowers etc..If he is pratice muslim ,he would not hurt your feelings but he would not have american style life( no clubs no alcohol, no travel to Vegas, no DKNY or Versace etc.)

3) If your muslim man is good minded and talks nice like future and his kids , he would be the great father . If he is not he would only thinking you for sex or Green card..

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