To Debbie H

Submitted by Kathy (United States), Feb 28, 2007 at 07:01

Hi Debbie, one thing about your comment that has me confused is that you said he is very poor. but still he manages to come and chat with you online for 4 or 5 hours a night. thats alot of money for someone that is poor in morocco.

I know what i'm talking about because my husband to is from morocco and was poor and he was a math tutor there. Now about his Mom and sister being on cam with him, that too confuses me. he either has a computer in his home or his mom goes to the cyber cafe with him...now that sounds strange as well because i could never imagine my mother in law going to one...

ask him questions like where is he getting the money from to chat with you and to phone you. with that much money he could feed him mom and sister for a few days.....if you want to talk you can email me at tenderlyours2000@yahoo.com .

I'm not trying to burst your bubble but I want you to know what you might be walking into. take baby steps, ask questions, dont always be sweet. let him know what you will stand for and what you wont stand for. Does he even know what a prenup is? If you love him then why a prenup?

see, what im getting at is that there is something in the back of your mind that is telling you to be cautious. Like i have told a friend that i have made on here is to take baby steps. move slowly. if he loves you, he will be there waiting for you, and if not then he wasnt the right one in the first place...

good luck to everyone, Kathy

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