some advice please!!- Moroccan man

Submitted by lissa (United States), Mar 1, 2007 at 12:09

I am currently invovled with a morrocan man...for about 10 months. Just recently we have talked about marriage.

Yes i am concerned after i read all of these comments. But,he does have a job and is paying for my trip and all expenses.....And we do spend countless hours talking on the phone and net....everything is starting to sound familiar to some of the comments i am reading now.....with a few differences

.He and his family will pay for a wedding if there is one and his mother is excited about dresses and the such....I KNOW they are not wealthy but he is their eldest son......i am 7 years older and that was probley the only downside...because he does want children in the future....

His FAMILY talked of marriage after about 3 months but he never put pressure on me or asked until now...He said he wanted to know for him self if we would mesh and was not concerned over his family's wishes.It was about us and what we wanted to do and what we thought we wanted for a life togehter .We never really discussed sex until very recently and that i found refreshing......We will not be sleeping together until we are married and neither of us are virgins....but,reading this sort of is making me think ......Could it be my fate or could it be my nightmare???

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