Relationship with Muslim Man

Submitted by Amber (United States), Mar 10, 2007 at 17:09

Hi! I met my Muslim Man by chatting on the internet. We started chatting on Msn after that. Our internet friendship got stronger as we chatted. We seemed to be serious about each other. I decided that if I was going to have a serious relationship with this guy that I was going to go meet him in person and test the waters first.

I spent two wonderful weeks with him and I met his family and friends. We have been together now for 6 months. Now, if you think that this man might be the one for you I would advise you to do what I did and go and visit first. Really get to know his family and his friends.

One piece of advice to you is do not get started in the habit that I did, and start sending your man money. Once you start they just think that they are going to get money from you all the time. I recommend that you both talk about your feelings about everything.

Now, the other thing I have heard from alot of women is they just want you to get to the USA. In some cases that is probably true. My man has promised me though that once he gets here that he will allow me to hold onto his papers to prove to me that he is not just going to take off on me.

Please if you have any hesitation about having a relationship with a muslim man think it through very carefully before doing so. I wish you the best of luck. Please stay in touch with me and let me know how things are going.

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