kathy...help!!

Submitted by linda (United States), Mar 11, 2007 at 00:22

kathy, you seem up and up on alot of information ...can you tell me which would be the best to do so me and the man i want to marry from morocco could do...we have tried to find information about what i need to bring with me when i go to morocco to marry and or what we need as far as to get the fiance visa and we get so many different stories told to us from different embassies, or where ever we call.

i am going in april and i feel confident that this man is a good man......he works and never ever one time has asked for money and he did say working would be better in the u.s. but if i truly want to live there in morocco, then that will be fine too. and we started as friends only he said he really didnt want an older woman and ...yes i am, but after several months he told me he felt comfortable with me and age didnt matter and i havent found any decrepancies in what he has told me yet so i see it like this ,i will go meet him and if i really felt things were not as i thought then i will have a wonderful vacation of a life time cuz i will have to start to work when i get back for the first time in many years. so i would never get a trip like that again.

so i guess it would have a nice expeirence anyway, but i do feel good about him......not that i havent been done bad since both my husbands died i have been thru so many bad relationships so i have learned one thing....... to love any man with caution so if i found out it wouldnt work i couild handle it because i can love now but not be a fool and just give my life away to them at the same time does that make sence???

so i am going out on a limb here and will go there and decide then if we will marry or just meet and then me put in for the fiance visa but i just need to know if u can tell me what exactlly i need and how long i will be there for us to marry there, or what i need to do after i come home to put in for the fiance visa. seems u really know a lot and i would love your help if possible....thanks a million!!!!!! linda

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