Please someone help me- Moroccan guy

Submitted by Michaela (United Kingdom), Mar 12, 2007 at 12:41

I am 21 and I met my Moroccan guy in Morocco on holiday. He works as a receptionist at the hotel i stayed in. He took me out on a date whilst I was out there.

I have been speaking to him online since then and I have since gone back to spend a week with him which went great! I have not met his family yet but, one of his brothers lives in Spain and his married sister is a flight attendant for Emirates Airlines.(so his family must not be very poor).

I am going back in April to spend another week with him and to meet his family. He didn't want me to meet his family til we spent time together the first time around. He has never asked me for money, and he is aware I would never send him money as we have talked about this. He has been honest with me and has said he has had many girls in the past, but i'm different! i have questioned this and said I am no fool and asked why am I different? he says it's because we get on with each other and he loves the person I am.

The thing is now he wants to have a baby straight away and get married when i go in April ( we are engaged) and I think maybe it's too soon. But after reading some of the bad experiences on here i am worried he is taking me for a ride and he just wants a visa to the uk and he doesn't really love me, as I am aware of some Moroccan guys that talk sweet nothings to women to get what they want!

Do you think i am making a mistake marrying this guy and getting pregnant? and is this real or fake? im so confused and hope that it is real as i love this guy.

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