good luck

Submitted by Diane (United States), Mar 16, 2007 at 23:58

Oh God Lucy this is too sad, you must been living in the hell. Darling I was living almost like this with my bf, he is Turkish too. He played games a lot and I thought I would die so sad I was. Many things that you said about your ex are very similar to my bf did and still do to me. I only met his cousin and that wasn't because he wanted that to happen that just happened. I've been with him for one year and four months but we broke up a few times already. I asked many time to meet his family but he say he is not ready to get marry and I dont know if he will be because he is 41 .... more than enough time to know what you want and what you don't want...

So based on what my bf has done I would teel you that when he told you to go date the flowerguy he us playing with you he wants to make sure you woudn't go, because he's big scary is to be cheat. Now you did , and you can go back and fix it the only thing you can do now is be quiet do not go sleep with him, make yourself busy then you have a good excuse, show him that you love him but you don't want to leave in this situation no more let him know that you will move on but make sure he knows that you are NOT going out with nobody else. That worked for me I hope work for you too. good luck!!!!!

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