ask him

Submitted by Annie (United States), Mar 19, 2007 at 13:07

Hi Maryann

Maybe you whould talk to him. I too am dating a turkish man and can honestly say if you trust him ask him. I recently went through something like this also, and let my imagination run away with me...well I asked him, and not in some mousy way, I directly spoke to him and he told me what I needed to know. I should have done this all along, but I didn't... Talk to him.. My fiance' said I would not be happy in Turkey and that it would be very difficult, not a happy life, I am staying put. (smile) Let me know how it works out. I know they like to be in charge but this generation is not like the old, equality is a very important aspect of any relationship.

best of luck

Annie

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