I Can't Take This Anymore!!

Submitted by Kim (United States), Mar 25, 2007 at 03:20

Ok, I've been reading all the comments posted on this board about dating Moroccan men, some positive, alot nagative. I'm just wondering what would happen if you got alot of ex-wives/girlfriends from White, Christian, American men on here and asked them to give their opinion of dating white men what it would be like. Let me tell you briefly about my past 4 relationships. First of all I am a 35 yr old, single, mother of two, never dated out of race or religion and now I am talking to a Moroccan man. But, as with any man I would be talking to I am very cautious, and no I was not looking for a man, we did meet on the internet but not a dating site.

So, with all that said, my first "adult" (I was 21) relationship was with a man who became insanely jealous, controlling, and absusive. He told me what to wear, how to fix my hair and insisted that I was sleeping with everyman in town. When I finally put my foot down he tried to kill me, loaded gun to my head for 8 hours. I then met a man, who I stupidly married, he never worked a full time job, delivered pizza part-time, "went to college" full time, never once paid a bill! He never had any money when the bills were due, his car broke down all the time and he never had the money to pay for repairs, and never had the money for his tuition, which I found out he wasn't even going to colllege. I paid over $45,000.00 in college tution for him (still wonder what happened to my money). He did adopt my oldest child, and we had a child together. He died last year, when he died he owed my over $70,000.00 in back child support. The next man I met knew exactly what to say, not easy on the eyes just a real good smooth talker, he knew just what to say all the time. Great guy right??!!! Well, he raped my daughter when I was at work!!!!! I didnt date anyone for 3 years after that, when ironically the one man i met and started dating was the cop that arrested this creep! He was perfect, we were in love, gonna get married, never even had one arguement! I found out he was sleeping with at least 8 other woman, 1 he got pregnant, 3 were other police officers!!!!!

So, what I'm tryin to say is that if someone came to me and asked me what my opinion on dating white, American, Christian men was I'd have to tell them they're all lairs, cheaters, abusuers, controlling, and gonna take your money!, so RUN fast!!! So, just realize there's good men and bad men everywhere in this world and I don't think it's fair to sterotype on race or religion!!!! By the way, the next man I marry, if I ever allow that to happen, will sign a pre-nup and have to submit to a lie detector test to prove to me that what he says to me is the truth!!!!!!

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