Turkish boyfriend

Submitted by melungeongirl (Turkey), Mar 28, 2007 at 07:06

Just make sure you check everything he says very well before you meet. Google his name on internet. Call his home when he doesn't expect call his job. Never ever give him money. If he ask you for any money I would drop him. Meet him in a place where there are lots of people.

Personally I wouldn't invite him into your home the first couple of days. Whatever you do, dont sleep with him on your first meeting. And also I dont want to generalise all Turkish men, but there seems to be a pattern that I've noticed both in the beginning of my relationship and some of the women on here. it might seem as though he is playing some kind of mind game with you. Like asking you about other men you have been with in the past. Or do you think this guy is attractive. One girl said her Turkish boyfriend actually told her to go out with another man.

Maybe it seems like petty games. But in my opinion it is done to test your loyalty. I'm not telling you to lie in any way. I'm just saying be very tactful with what you say.There is also a website I dont remember what its called. I typed in love with a turkish man in my browser or American in love with a turkish man. Maybe you can find it. Its been along time since I did. But what I found was a website of women who went on holiday in Turkey and fell in love and turned out the men had several women they ended up using for money.

They put pictures up of the men. there was a message board where you could put your boyfriends name and or picture so you could check to see if he has scammed any other women .Maybe you could post something on here someone else might know what the website is called. Anyway, good luck

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