That is not the way we date!!!!

Submitted by BYK (United States), Apr 12, 2007 at 14:48

Hi i am 28 year old turkish man, i couldnt stop myself from writing you this message because this is not the way we date. we take care of our girl friends, i mean at least i do. we spend time with them, outside the apartment, going to dinner, movies, plays, exhibitions , you name it. so i really think this guy has no serious for you at all. i really am sorry for telling you this, but to be honest, as a turkish man i know exactly what he is doing and you should have nothing to do with such a person, turkish or greek or whatever.

dont let him get to you or treat you like that. if you show him that he cant get to you he will understand that you are not just a FB (sorry for that word) then he'll understand that he has to do things to get you such as if he wants you to go over, then he will have to make plans at a rest in advance but broadway tickets for a show right after dinner and take you to a fancy wine bar after the play and drink a glass of very nice red wine. then he can ask you to go over( at that moment he will not even need to ask cause you will go willingly after such a great time,right? ) so just be careful, dont let him be that way that he is... you can write me for any questions. just be happy

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