Amanda

Submitted by American Muslim convert (United States), Apr 23, 2007 at 03:45

If what you want, Amanda, is not a judgement, but advice, I will give it to you. Your relationship will not work. It will cause you grief and pain and hurt your daughter, his daughter, his wife, and you. That is all there is to it.

Here is what I imagine will happen: he promises to leave his wife, or says he has, you go to visit him, you sleep with him, he says he wants to marry you, he is still married and can be legally, you get married, you have problems, he tries to convince you to participate in polygamy, eventually your culutural differences will get the better of you and he will realize how much better suited he is to his wife. That will be the end of it. It will suck. Take a cold shower and get over it now.

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