Pls answer my confused mind - Egyptian man

Submitted by Shiela (Philippines), May 11, 2007 at 04:41

Helo there! I've been seeing an egyptian man on the net for these past few months, and i fall in love with him, and i guess he feel the same way too. He is 60 yrs old and married with 4 children. He is now in mecca doing hajj

he entrusted his e-mails and IM id and passwords to me and was able to find out that he is chatting with a lot of women, and maybe he is flirting too....Once, i used another id to caught him and i asked him if he has an online girlfriend and he denied it... i was hurt very much... but i did not tell him that... but i had egun to doubt him....

two weeks before i ask him to divorce his wife so that we can marry here in my place... and he refuse bcoz its unfair to his wife.... though i do understand his reason, i dont feel comfortable marrying a man with a wife... what should i do... i love the man and has plans to marry him but after reading the comments here i am confused. pls enlighten my mind...

pls e-mail me...

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