Madness!!!!

Submitted by K (Ireland), May 23, 2007 at 09:03

Hi there

I was just reading your comment about you and your boyfriend. I think youre mad taking care of him for so long and sending him money all the time. Thats not love in my book. you are been used. If he was any kind of a man with an ounce of pride he would not take advantage of you like that.

And to be honest, you said he gives out when you dont send some money!! Hello!! alarm bells should have went off the first time he gave out. How dare he. Why would you want to be with a man that needs a woman to support him. Its not as if it was for a few weeks. You said over a year. He is not gonna change now when he has a free meal ticket!

If he really loved and respected you as a woman and his Gf, he would find a way to make a living like decent people do, and not sponge of you.

Wanting to marry you in usa, and you wanting to marry in his country, if he loved you as much as you say he does he would not care.

I dont know you or your bf, but to me it looks like he is using you for money, and maybe entry to usa. I dont know or understand why you have put up with him for so long.

Switch the light on upstairs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Good luck

K

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