A word from a moroccan man

Submitted by issam hassani (Qatar), May 27, 2007 at 04:34

Well, first of all, i would like to express my thoughts in regards to what it has been said about moroccan men as well as arabs. I logged in this website just by chance and it was not my main search, yet i see that there are many broken hearts and confused people. so i thought it would be a good opportunity to feed-back my comments since i am concerned.

I am young moroccan man, i have lived in different parts of the world, not seeking for a passport or a paper. i agree about all what have been said here, that the moroccan men are playing with western hearts and promise them with a great life after marriage. i know people who are having the same mentality, in order to have a decent life they must get married to a foreign woman. sad but true.

so, i am not trying to defend my moroccan blood, but cases differ, and everywhere you go in this world you find hostile people and good people. somebody was saying, morocco is a poor country, i agree that the rate of poverty is higher than other countries, but we should not generalize, even you go to europe or the states you will find junky people having a worse life situation.

If you choose your husband through the net, 10000 km from the place you live in, it means that you din't find the man who fulfills your needs and your desires in your home country, so if you find it far away from your country, there is a risk, the culture is different, the mentality is different and the life objectives are also. so if you fall in love with somebody who you don't even know in real life, or maybe you spent with him a one week vacation in an appartament, doesn't mean that all the people from morocco are not worth to be rely on.

the people searching for women in internet have one objective, to marry a foreigner to get the "papers", so give up these dreams of finding a solemate trough the net, it can be beautiful, romantic and sometimes real but not all the time.

so one advice, before marriage, you have to make sure that your partner is worth to be a partner.

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