"Don't Waste The Pretty"

Submitted by Sara (United States), May 30, 2007 at 19:01

My favorite comment from a book called " He just isnt that into you". Yes, I know as women sometimes we tend to over look a few "flaws" or "red flags" with men, thinking that they will be better with us or we can change them. Well, truth is no one can change anyone, unless the person themselves want to change.

Do not blame yourself, it is not your fault. Do take responsibility for giving your son the best life possible and teach him not to treat women like that. This man is wanting you to lose all control over everything in your life, he is a perfect manipulator. Remember YOU are in control of YOUR destiny, no one else is. Sounds like this man should get a puppy if he wants someone to be by his side, be obiedient, and never talk. My advice is leave as soon as possible, you deserve better, do not waste yourself with a piece of trash like that. Things DO get better! Be positive and move on.

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